In response to this post, I'm soliciting your life problems for a new advice column: Using Jeff Francoeur as an example.
If you want to know how to approach the game, teammates or life, watch Jeff Francoeur.
He leads by example.
You can email me at email@example.com or post your problems here. Of course, I will not use any names. I will make an honest attempt to use Francoeur's career to provide answers to your questions.