In response to this post, I'm soliciting your life problems for a new advice column: Using Jeff Francoeur as an example.
http://royals.kansascity.com/games/233/
If you want to know how to approach the game, teammates or life, watch Jeff Francoeur.
He leads by example.
You can email me at royalsnightly@yahoo.com or post your problems here. Of course, I will not use any names. I will make an honest attempt to use Francoeur's career to provide answers to your questions.
Thanks!